Who are you to judge?

I must confess this concept is not my own, I borrowed it from the one and only Carrie Bradshaw. But where would we be without great inspiration?


So here it goes: Why do we judge people? Is it a conscious thing, something done with malice in the heart, or is it simply a human instinct to organize people into boxes so our minds can comprehend? I personally think we judge as an easy way to identify the different types of people. Of course there are always exceptions of the rule, but if people are so angry about being judged, then why do they fit the stereotype? We all just want to be loved so we tend to mold ourselves to fit the types of those around us, but what would happen if there were no leaders and everyone was trying to follow each other, but no one wanted to set the standard....eeeee. craziness.

So I propose a toast: we all judge each other, as long as we can still be open enough to accept and embrace it when someone breaks the mold.